Communicating with others is a big problem in daily life. Some people areeasy to talk to oters, but some others not. When you want to talk to someone,firstly you should find some topics to talk about, but the topics should notincluded the privacy,such as age, marriage or wage. Secondly, pay attention toyour attitude that do not make others feel uncomfortable. Comfort is the basicof communication. Thirdly, pay attention to your body language. Body languagecan transmit much information, such as your attitude, manners or something youdo not realize. Finally, focus on your pacing. Don't talk too fast or tooslow.
Recently, I was so shocked by the news that a young boy died of violenceafter his parents sent him to a private school. The slogan of the private schoolwas to help parents correct kids' bad behaviors. A lot of parents choose to sendtheir kids here after they giving up educating their kids. The public blamed theparents for not educating their children in the right way. There is no doubtthat the root of kids' problems come from family. Many parents always force thechildren to do what they want and ignore the kids' feelings, so they will goagainst the elder's thoughts. Finally, the parents lose temper. The elder shouldshow respect to the kids. Communication can solve the problem. When the childrenreceive love and understanding from parents, they will be nice persons.
In the last century, the government carried out the policy of familyplanning to control the increasing population. So most families have only onechild, but recently, a new policy has been announced and people can have thesecond child. It sounds like the good news for the family, as the only child canhave a sibling to company. While for some parents, they seem to be not thequalified parents. A boy complained that his parents’ second child was the smartphone, because they lowed down their heads all the time. Many parents did notrealize the lack of communication with their children. If they want anotherchild, they’d better learn to communicate their kids first.
Recently, it has been reported that a boy argued with his father and thenhe left home and the policed found him, taking him home after half a month. Itsounds so ridiculous for the boy to leave home for such a long time, butthinking further, the lack of communication between the father and the son makesthis joke. There always some people wonder why we need to get higher education,because we may not earn money as much as the workers. In my opinion, the purposeof education is not for the money, but for the better person we will become. Ifthe father knows how to communicate with his son and his son is considerate,then things wouldn’t become so bad. We need receive education and become thewise person, so we can communicate better and create a harmoniousenvironment.
As human beings, we communicate throughout our lives for various porpoises.But just because we've been communicating for a long time does not mean that weare always successful or that we can’t improve our communication skills. How canwe convey successful communication? Well, there are several useful tips may helpyou to improve your communication skills.
First of all, listen and respond thoughtfully to others. You should spendmore time listening to others instead of boasting yourself. Some of us are veryegocentric, which means self-focused. If you spend too much time talking aboutyour own stuff, the people around you may think you are a tedious and annoyingperson. So, the best way to do is to consider our friends’ thoughts andfeelings. Try to be a good listener, when you express yourself, thinks about itcarefully before you really say it.
Second, appropriately adapt messages to others. It is not enough to besensitive and accurately understand others; when your send out your message, youpick up the best ways and respond to others to achieve your communication goals.But it does not mean to say something that the listener wants to hear. Thatwould be unethical. Appropriately adapt messages to others means carefullyediting and shaping your responses so that your messages can be understood byothers and you can achieve your goals.
Last but not least, try to interpret nonverbal messages. As we all know,unspoken messages can express powerful ideas or emotions with greater impactthan mere words. You should try to observe others facial expressions ormovements and give correct responds to others. You can see the emotions orattitude from one’s gesture stops. Be sensitive and appropriate interpretingothers.
Most people learn communication rules from experience, by observing andinteracting with others. You can do that too, if you have enough patient anddeterminations.
Communicating with others is a big problem in daily Some people are easy to talk to oters, but some others When you want to talk to someone, firstly you should find some topics to talk about, but the topics should not included the privacy,such as age, marriage or Secondly, pay attention to your attitude that do not make others feel Comfort is the basic of Thirdly, pay attention to your body Body language can transmit much information, such as your attitude, manners or something you do not Finally, focus on your Don't talk too fast or too
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