记住自己失败的时候

儿子脸上受伤，回家后母亲却马上用相机拍下他难看的样子。

his son's face was hurt, but his mother immediately took pictures of him with a camera.

母亲不是借机讽刺儿子，而是让他明白，世上并不是一切都美好，什么事都一帆风顺。人都会失败，要记住自己失败的时候，以后才不会再犯同样的错误，并且拥有前进的动力。

the mother didn't take the opportunity to satirize her son, but to let him understand that not everything in the world is beautiful and everything is smooth. people will fail. remember that when you fail, you won't make the same mistake again, and you have the power to move forward.

春秋时期的吴国和越国，糊成一团，打个不停。一次大战后，越国惨败，险些要彻底从地图上被抹去，还好国王勾践愿去吴国当奴隶，换取国家的存在，吴王也同意了。勾践在吴国过着类似于囚犯的生活，睡草堆，干重活。为了让自己永远不忘记战败的耻辱，他不知从哪儿找来一块苦胆，悬在屋里，每天舔一下。时光飞逝，一转眼过了几年，吴王放松了警惕。勾践又抓住吴王生病的机会，装作关心，去尝了吴王的屎。吴王见他这般服从，就放他走了。勾践一回国，大力发展国力。昊王见势不妙，又去打越国，可惜战败了。吴王也想学勾践，保全吴国。勾践岂能放过他，于是昊国从地图上被抹去了。

during the spring and autumn period, the state of wu and the state of yue became a group and fought incessantly. after the first world war, the state of yue was defeated miserably. it was almost wiped out from the map. fortunately, king gou jian was willing to be a slave to the state of wu in exchange for the existence of the state, and king wu agreed. gou jian lived a life similar to that of a prisoner in the state of wu, sleeping in a haystack and doing heavy work. in order to never forget the humiliation of defeat, he found a gall bladder from nowhere and hung it in the room and licked it every day. time flies. after a few years, king wu relaxed his vigilance. gou jian seized the chance of the king of wu's illness, pretended to care and tasted his excrement. when the king of wu saw that he was so obedient, he let him go. as soon as gou jian returned to china, he vigorously developed his national strength. seeing the situation, king hao went to fight the state of yue again. unfortunately, he was defeated. the king of wu also wanted to learn from goujian and save the kingdom of wu. can gou jian let him go？ then the kingdom of hao was erased from the map.

相反，三国时期，刘备的儿子阿斗在国破之后被晋给软禁了。虽说是软禁，但对君王也是vip级待遇，金樽清酒，玉盘珍馐。一天，晋国的人试探问他还想蜀国吗，这倒霉的败家子居然回答根本忘了蜀国。(这可不是装的!)本来还有的复国希望就这样破灭了，因为扶不起的阿斗记不住自己的失败。

on the contrary, during the three kingdoms period, adu, liu bei's son, was placed under house arrest by jin after the country was broken. although it's house arrest, it's also vip treatment for the king. it's a golden cup of sake and a jade plate of delicacies. one day, people in the state of jin asked him if he wanted to go back to the state of shu. the unlucky loser actually said that he forgot the state of shu at all. (this is not to pretend!) the hope of returning to the motherland was so shattered, because the helpless adou could not remember his failure.

记住自己的失败，才能不再犯错误，并为成功努力。

only by remembering your own failure can you stop making mistakes and strive for success.

往事虽不堪回首，但该回首时还得回!

although the past can't be recalled, it must be recalled!