世界上有一种善意的谎言很美

谎言并不是人们所说的全部都是坏的！我认为：世界上有一种善意的谎言，甚至能编织美丽的故事！

lies are not all bad! i think: there is a kind of white lie in the world, and even can weave beautiful stories!

如果你不相信，下面我就给你讲这么一个故事：

if you don't believe it, let me tell you a story:

在某人的小时候，家里并不富裕，他自出生以来身体的体质就很差，他的父亲在他还没有出世前就去世了，家里只剩下他和他的母亲两个相依为命。白天他的妈妈去田里工作，到了晚上回到家里还要做一些刺绣活儿，每天晚上都做到三更半夜。在每次吃饭的时候他的妈妈总是把哪些好吃的、有营养的留给他吃，把那些不好吃的、没什么营养的留给自己吃。儿子长到8岁那年，觉得很疑惑，才问他的母亲：“妈妈，你怎么老是把那些好吃的留给我呢？难道你不喜欢吃吗？”母亲说：“对，我不喜欢吃，你要多吃点，你身体弱，应该多吃点来补充营养！”

when someone was a child, his family was not rich. he had a poor physique since he was born. his father died before he was born. only he and his mother were left in the family. during the day, his mother went to work in the field. at night, when she came back home, she had to do some embroidery work. every night, she worked in the middle of the night. every time when eating, his mother always leaves what is delicious and nutritious for him to eat, and what is not delicious and nutritious for himself to eat. when my son was eight years old, he felt puzzled and asked his mother, "mom, why do you always leave those delicious things to me？ don't you like it？ " mother said, "yes, i don't like it. you should eat more. you are weak. you should eat more to supplement your nutrition!"

到了儿子读大学的那年，每个学期要交一万多元的学费，对于这一个家庭来说，这一个数字简直就是一个天文数字！但母亲为了供自己的孩子读书就更加努力地赚钱。也因为这样母亲因劳成疾，母亲以后再也不能做操劳的工作。儿子知道后，放弃了读大学的机会，在村里找了一份工作，月薪有200多块，这些钱勉强可以让他和他的母亲的生活得到满足。

when my son went to college, he had to pay more than 10000 yuan for each semester. for this family, this number is just an astronomical number! but mothers work harder to make money in order for their children to read. because of this, the mother became ill because of her work, and she could not do the hard work any more. after his son knew it, he gave up his chance to go to college and found a job in the village. his monthly salary was more than 200 yuan, which could barely satisfy his life and that of his mother.

一次，儿子从河边钓了一条鱼回来给母亲熬汤，汤熬好了，儿子盛了一碗大的给母亲，给自己盛了一碗小的。儿子把碗放到桌子上，端起大的那一碗对母亲说：“妈，来喝汤吧！”母亲摇了摇头，指着小的那一碗说：“不，我最不喜欢喝鱼汤了！我喝小的那一碗就够了！大的那一碗，你喝吧！你身体弱，应该多吃点来补充营养！”

once, the son fished a fish from the river and came back to cook soup for his mother. after the soup was cooked, the son filled a big bowl for his mother and a small bowl for himself. the son put the bowl on the table and picked up the big one and said to his mother, "mom, come and have soup!" mother shook her head, pointed to the small bowl and said, "no, i don't like fish soup! i'll have the small bowl! you can drink the big bowl! you are weak. you should eat more to supplement your nutrition! "

过了没有多久，儿子不读大学的事情让村里的人知道了！村里的人说他简直就是一个傻瓜，竟然为了自己的母亲，而放弃自己的大好前途！真是个大傻瓜！而他却这样说：“不，我不是傻瓜，如果我是傻瓜的话，那你们就是大傻瓜。因为只有大傻瓜才会为了自己的名利、好处而不去照顾自己的亲人，现在连我这个傻瓜也懂得去照顾自己的亲人，那你们不就是连不如吗？”

after a while, my son didn't go to university, which made the villagers know! people in the village say that he is a fool. he even gave up his great future for his mother! what a fool! but he said, "no, i am not a fool. if i am a fool, you are a fool. because only a big fool will not take care of his own family for his own fame and benefits. now even i, a fool, know how to take care of his own family. aren't you even better？ "

不久，母亲去世了，母亲去世之前还是说着那句话：“你身体弱，应该多吃点补充营养！”

before long, my mother died. before she died, she said, "you are weak. you should eat more nutrition!"

看，这就是一个由善意的谎言编织的美丽故事，你喜欢吗？

look, this is a beautiful story made of white lies. do you like it？